Elder's Respect

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We'd been at the hospital four days waiting for the right circumstances. After induction, they kept a monitor on mother and child. Finally, they moved us just outside the delivery rooms. There were a few questions and rules of etiquette... Until the heart monitor began to show dangerously low readings.


There would be no time to for the ideal. Our game plan changed instantaneously from traditional delivery to life saving surgery. In a twist of fate, the umbilical cord was wrapped around baby's neck. Mom's water had broken earlier, which sifted the child closer to a natural delivery. Unfortunately those movements continued to elevate the danger. Each shift dropped the pulse lower and created a race against time.

In what may be the defining moment of her life... His mother told the operating room staff to do anything necessary to deliver our son. They said to change position and rolled her through the secure doors... A short while passed before meeting my son. Nurses assured me his mom was in good shape, but wouldn't wake for several hours.


Our discussions about names rendered Colt, but we'd not decided if that would be first or middle nor what the other piece might be. Born September 27, 2006, Colt William is the oldest male Craver of his generation; despite having more than a dozen cousins born prior. The final name was agreed to because of my grandfather (and William Bruce a.k.a. "Axl" Rose).


From birth the number one son has all the colors of the rainbow. Also, turns out he posses all the special features of the family DNA: an ability to fall asleep anywhere, his affliction for animals, selfless help for those around him, and the mental fiber-optics of a reference guide. In modern times, he's helping his mother run the house while being an amazing older brother.


Initially, he was a horse of a different color. The jaundice never compromised his health. Yet, watching a child sleep on special lighting can keep any parent on alert. Everyone made time to see elder Craver... and he seemed to study them; giving no shortage of expressions. Fast forward to today, he has the same certain absentia period as he gets comfortable and engages.

Each person smiled as they shook his hand, felt a heartfelt hug, and celebrated his 18th birthday. Conversations took unpredictable direction like the flooding from earlier in the day. What started with uncertainty ended with a beautiful sunset.

We're so proud of this young man who lives like a river. Those that surround him cherish his gifts and constantly respect the force of nature he may become.


Godspeed (Sweet Dreams)
Dragon tales and the "water is wide"
Pirate's sail and lost boys fly
Fish bite moonbeams every night
And I love you

Godspeed, little man
Sweet dreams, little man
Oh my love will fly to you each night on angels wings
Godspeed
Sweet dreams

The rocket racer's all tuckered out
Superman's in pajamas on the couch
Goodnight moon, will find the mouse
And I love you

Godspeed, little man
Sweet dreams, little man
Oh my love will fly to you each night on angels wings
Godspeed
Sweet dreams

God bless mommy and match box cars
God bless dad and thanks for the stars
God hears "Amen," wherever we are
And I love you

Godspeed, little man
Sweet dreams, little man
Oh my love will fly to you each night on angels wings
Godspeed
Godspeed
Godspeed
Sweet dreams











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